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Dee Nelson's avatar

Unfortunately my husband and I are being badgered by both family and friends to "get over it". To get on a plane (most folks live a multi-hour plane trip plus airport time away) there's no way we can keep a mask on the whole way without taking it off to eat and drink. Indoor dinner invitations. My sister in particular is livid that I won't fly across the country to visit my cousin who could die of Stage 4 cancer any day, and also pissed off that I would not fly to the inevitable funeral either.

My husband and I are sick of this, we're sick of being safe, we're absolutely desperate to get a long overdue vacation in Hawaii, we're sick of being called paranoid, silly, and stupid. We're tired of giving them the facts and they tell us we're exaggerating. We're sick of the lack of freedom. We *KNOW* we would have terrible long COVID if we got it... both of us have high blood pressure, obesity, and my parents/grandparents on both sides died of strokes. I weep with despair almost every day seeing people enjoy the freedom of being able to do whatever whereever and wish we could do the same but can't.

I realize at some point we may both snap and go on flights, eat indoors, go to movies. Because we're sick of it and at some point we may decide the risk is worth it (keeping masks on when we can to reduce the risk, but still).

I don't know. I don't know what's going to happen. It absolutely sucks in every way possible.

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eyes open's avatar

Excellent and informative post Looking forward to more.

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